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Do you want to get your ex back? The chances are that if you are trying to get your ex back, you are probably making a number of mistakes.
Most men become so eager to wing back an ex that they act needy and scare her away even more. Getting back with your ex is a delicate process that involves both humility and also a sense of grounding. After all, if you broke up there was probably enough emotional energy for it to happen. Here are some common mistakes to avoid.
To begin with, don’t try getting back with your ex until you are sure you want her back. So many men try begging to be taken back, which makes him look desperate and really zaps him of all his power.
What you really want to do is ask yourself if she really was worth it. What men often forget when they are trying to get back with their ex is that they may not be compatible. Men often want what they can’t have. You want to seriously weigh the pros and cons of having her back before seriously considering how to win back an ex
Secondly, learn from what went wrong. Often men will fixate on the last issue without really looking at the bigger picture of why he brok up. For example, she may have gotten angry that you spent too much time with your friends. If you broke up because you were arguing about that you may think it was about that instead of being about her feeling neglected and under appreciated.
Knowing the why behind the break up will help you a ton. For example, maybe she felt that you didn’t appreciate her or did she feel that you were too clingy? Those are completely different but they both might lead to a break up. So it is important to realize why you are separated.
If you can’t tell, ask people for their feedback, but try not to be one sided. Keep in mind that if you are asking for help, you want to be open to answers that are not flattering to you. Often men refuse to believe that something they are doing is driving the girl away. For example, I had a friend who refused to believe that flattering a woman incessantly and doing tons of favors can come across as desperate and insecure rather than charming. If you are really confused don’t be afraid to get expert help, but again, be open to their answers.
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