Knowing how to read if a woman is interested in you can make the difference between going out with an amazing woman and being flat-out rejected in a humiliating way.
But when it comes to signs that a woman is interested, how do you know which signs indicate interest and which don’t? How do you know that you’re reading the right signs that she’s interested versus neutral behavior?
There are 4 key signs that will show you how to read if a woman is interested or not and as long as you look for them, you’ll know whether or not she’s interested and if you should “make your move”.
1) Watch her body language.
A lot of people will say that a body language is the key to knowing whether or not a woman is interested in you. For the most part, that’s true, but then the question is, “What body language should you pay attention to and what should you ignore? How closely do you need to pay attention?”
The good news is that you don’t have to pay very close attention to know where you stand. Some guys make the mistake of focusing extremely closely at every little move a woman makes and drawing conclusions from each individual move – this is a mistake, as it will leave you frantically reacting to every little move she makes. You’ll feel off-balance, she’ll feel you’re uncomfortable and it will creep her out.
Instead, just keep track of her overall body language. Specifically:
- Is she orienting her body towards you more often than not?
- When she’s talking to you, does she have open body language and not closed body language (crossing her arms in front of her or having self-protective body language would be an example of closed body language)?
- Does she touch her hair or scratch the back of her palm in front of you?
Again, if you notice she tends to have this body language towards you in general, then it’s a good indication that she may be interested in you.
2) Does she smile and happy facial expressions towards you?
If the woman tends to make happy facial expressions towards you and generally smile at you, then it’s possible that she’s interested.
On the other end, if she makes brief or frequent faces that appear like fear or disgust when you’re speaking when you’re talking or when she sees you, then these are likely indicators of disinterest.
Similarly, if when you’re talking she tends to giggle or laugh frequently and generally seems happy when she’s talking to you, it’s highly likely that she is interested in you.
3) Eye contact
If the woman tends to hold eye contact with you when she sees you and when you’re talking, this is likely that she’s interested in you. In fact, if you tend to hold eye contact with her and you happen to notice she holds eye contact with you for a moment longer than usual, then looks down and kind of smiles or giggles then looks back at you, then it’s highly likely she’s interested in you.
If you’re in a conversation and she asks you relevant questions to what you’re talking about, she’s paying attention to you and that’s a possible sign of interest. If she were just giving you generic responses that have very little depth or involvement in what you’re talking about, she might not be interested (either in you or what you’re talking about).
One very strong indicator of interest or sign that she’s interested is that she keeps the conversation going if it starts to lull. If you notice that she introduces a new subject or starts talking whenever the conversation seems to be dropping off, then that means she wants to keep the conversation going with you and she’s most likely interested in you.
Bonus Tip #1: A deadly mistake that a lot of guys make when trying to read if a woman is interested is that they are too serious. They go into their interactions trying to figure out if she’s interested or attracted to them and they end up putting all their attention into watching what the woman is doing instead of having a great conversation.
As a result, the guys who are too fixated on reading if a woman is interested end up coming off very creepy, serious and disconnected.
When looking for signs that a woman is interested, just knowing the signs is enough. You should not waste your valuable attention on watching her every move to figure out if she’s attracted to you or not. Now that you have the knowledge of the key signs that she’s interested, you’ll notice them as they come up when they come up.
Bonus Tip #2: Look at the overall picture. If you happen to notice one of the 4 key signs that she’s interested in you, it’s possible that she likes you. However, when a girl likes a guy, it’s likely for her to display all 4 key signs… she might not always clearly show all 4 signs, but it’s quite common for a woman to show all 4 signs. Don’t draw any conclusions unless she shows multiple signs of interest.
Bonus Tip #3: Have a positive self-image. What you believe about yourself tends to show up in the real world. It’s great that you know the signs of interest now, but you’ll do even better if you make the general assumption that a girl is interested in you if she’s talking to you at all.
Don’t be obnoxious about assuming that she’s interested – the most successful men quietly assume that women are interested in them without ever having to say it and without ever having to convince anyone that women are interested in them.
You may not believe that women are typically interested in you at the moment, but that’s all the more reason that you should start assuming that women are interested in you now. The results will amaze you!
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