So let me guess: You met a girl, you talked, you got her number. You think you hit it off with her… or at least… you hope you did.
So you send a text and (gulp) she doesn’t text back.
You think to yourself, “Not a big deal. It’s only been ten minutes… she probably just hasn’t checked her phone.”
Then half an hour passes and you’ve been checking your phone every five minutes, pulling your hair out and mentally revisiting your interaction with her, going through everything with a fine-toothed comb, thinking about what you might have done to have screwed it up.
Then the questions start going through your head: Should I send another text? Will that make me look needy? Should I play it cool and just not text her until she responds? If she texts me back, should I make her wait?
Calm down – this article will tell you everything you need to know when a woman doesn’t text back.
First, you need to calm down. If you’re all worked up, you’re not going to make a good decision. Here’s a few things to keep in mind:
- You already made your impression during the interaction. You’re not going to win her over with some amazing, super text message.
- By the same token, unless you said something completely needy, offensive or angry, nothing you say over text is going to do much damage.
- The only thing you can control is yourself, so put your focus on how to handle yourself well.
There are 5 main reasons a girl won’t text you back:
- She wasn’t that into you.
- She’s busy with something.
- If you were acting especially “needy” in the text message.
- She’s away from her phone.
- She’s with another guy at the moment.
Regardless of the reason – you have no way of knowing! Getting upset about, worrying about, being angry about it… none of that is going to help you.
What will help you? Occupying yourself!
Do something else – take your mind off of whether or not she’s texting you back. Hang out with friends, focus on a fun hobby, do something else instead of waiting around for the text message.
There is nothing more unnattractive than a man who is needy for a woman’s attention / approval / validation. Stop needing women to respond to you to make you feel secure and instead focus on making your life richer, more full and more interesting for you.
It will make you far more interesting to women if you have a full life that is completely fulfilling and fun for you. And it will have the added benefit of making sure you never come off as needy.
Also, it’s a good strategy to never build your plans around waiting for a girl to respond. Instead, make plans and expect that the girl will come around and join you. But if she doesn’t you’ll still have fun doing what you were planning on without her.
Don’t build your life and plans around a woman – lead a fun and exciting life and have women join you. The type of men who women are most attracted to lead their life this way, so you should now too.
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