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Don’t let yourself ruin a great relationship because you missed the warning signs of an emotional affair. If you find yourself telling yourself “But we’re just friends” or “My spouse doesn’t need to know…” your relationship is likely in danger. Learn the warning signs of an emotional affair and what to do about them. And don’t be afraid to run like hell if it means saving your marriage.
Emotional affairs are usually unplanned, but they are not unforeseeable. Having an affair can ruin a deep and caring relationship, all for the sake of releasing sexual tension and having a one-night stand. You are far more likely to have a one-night stand with a close friend than you are with a stranger. And a one-night stand with a close friend rarely stops at just one night. You may think that if you give in you’ll get it out of your system, but you’ll only be opening yourself up to the possibility of future affairs Here are dangerous signs that you are moving from a safe relationship to a romantic emotional affair:
Be aware of who you use to vent emotions and express your feelings too. It’s easy to confide in a close friend when things aren’t perfect at home, but that can lead you into using that person as an escape from reality. The idea of being with them becomes romanticized and you imagine that there would never be any problems if the two of you were together. This isn’t the case. This is an early warning sign. If your friend is starting to occupy a greater part of your thoughts than your partner, than you are placing more importance on your friendship than on your partner.
You should also be aware of what happens when you hide stuff from your partner or lie to your partner. Maybe it starts off with a white lie here and there. You tell yourself “It’s no big deal. Were just friends” you aren’t really deceiving your partner, you’re just avoiding certain topics. That’s a very slippery slope, granted we’ll all fork our tongues when asked “Do you like my new haircut?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?”, that’s unavoidable. But when you start concealing parts of your friendships from your partner, it’s a good indicator that at least subconsciously, you think there’s something you need to be concealing from them. That something is the beginning of an affair.
You should also be aware of the tension between your friend and you, especially sexual tension For instance, you may be joking around and the conversation might sexual, because that’s what good conversations do. The two of you might suddenly look right into each other’s eyes and share a moment. That spur of the moment sexual tension is very hard to resist, it feels natural and we have natural urges to act on it. Despite resisting that tension, it only becomes harder and harder to resist each subsequent time it pops up. Each time it becomes more and more likely that something will just happen.
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